Rochelle Maria Virginia Vaz

Love marriages are mostly the result of diving blindly into a life long commitment without resolving important issues, hoping things will change once married, responsibilities too will be shared responsibly and maturely . But once married, the fairytale ends and your faced with reality. The inability to resolve issues or make the marriage work leads the couple on the path to separation and later divorce.  Here are some common factors that can contribute to the end of love marriages and potentially lead to divorce: Unrealistic expectations In the early stages of a relationship, couples in love marriages may have idealized expectations about their partner and the marriage itself. Over time, the blinders come off, they realise these expectations may not be met, leading to disappointment and dissatisfaction. Communication issues Effective communication is crucial in any relationship. If couples in a love marriage struggle to communicate their needs, concerns, and emotions, ...

Separation can be hard for both partners as well as the children involved. After separation from your partner, there are a few things you should and shouldn't do for your own mental, emotional and physical well being as well as that of your partner.  Do's : - Be respectful and kind towards your partner , even if you have differences. This might not be easy at first. That's why it's important to give yourself time before you start communicating.  - Give time and space to your partner as well. Keep the lines for communication open. This help you both reflect on your actions and decision.  - Write down your own good & bad qualities and also that of your spouse.  - Write down what you seek in a life partner , your expectations, your desires. Write down the pros and cons in your relationship and discuss this with your spouse.  - Establish clear separation goals and timelines. If you wish to be separated temporarily or permanently a...