Rochelle Maria Virginia Vaz

Marriage is a lifelong commitment and you cannot leave it to chance. Hence choosing the right life partner is the key to success and happiness. Love Marriage: Love marriages are mostly considered to be marriages made in heaven, where two individuals make a rational choice of choosing their soulmates based on various mutual grounds of union. These choices can also be made on irrational grounds where the partners make amateur decision to get married.  Arrange Marriage: Arranged marriage is a type of marital union where the bride and groom are particularly selected by family members and family friends. In some cultures, a professional matchmaking sites or matchmakers may be used to find a spouse for the adult individual in question. One or both partners may or may not have a say in choosing their life partner.  Here are some of the pro and cons to help you decide between love marriage and arrange marriage: In love marriage, Romantic & Em...

Love marriages are mostly the result of diving blindly into a life long commitment without resolving important issues, hoping things will change once married, responsibilities too will be shared responsibly and maturely . But once married, the fairytale ends and your faced with reality. The inability to resolve issues or make the marriage work leads the couple on the path to separation and later divorce.  Here are some common factors that can contribute to the end of love marriages and potentially lead to divorce: Unrealistic expectations In the early stages of a relationship, couples in love marriages may have idealized expectations about their partner and the marriage itself. Over time, the blinders come off, they realise these expectations may not be met, leading to disappointment and dissatisfaction. Communication issues Effective communication is crucial in any relationship. If couples in a love marriage struggle to communicate their needs, concerns, and emotions, ...

Separation can be hard for both partners as well as the children involved. After separation from your partner, there are a few things you should and shouldn't do for your own mental, emotional and physical well being as well as that of your partner.  Do's : - Be respectful and kind towards your partner , even if you have differences. This might not be easy at first. That's why it's important to give yourself time before you start communicating.  - Give time and space to your partner as well. Keep the lines for communication open. This help you both reflect on your actions and decision.  - Write down your own good & bad qualities and also that of your spouse.  - Write down what you seek in a life partner , your expectations, your desires. Write down the pros and cons in your relationship and discuss this with your spouse.  - Establish clear separation goals and timelines. If you wish to be separated temporarily or permanently a...

Being blocked or ghosted can cause significant emotional distress and mental health issues for individuals, particularly in the era of social media. Ghosting is when someone suddenly stops responding to messages or calls, while being blocked means the individual cannot contact the other person at all. Both actions can leave individuals feeling rejected, confused, and anxious. "I am Blocked" syndrome is a kind of sepration anxiety growing from a mix of past abandonment issues plus a continuous karmic cycle of being ghosted, blocked & gaslighted  by the same lying, cheating, manipulative narcissist. All the redflags 🚩 telling you something surely wrong ❌. They try to control how you reciprocate their actions by ghosting, gaslighting or blocking you. They do it repeatedly till you become like a puppet in their control.  Even when you are not blocked, you will still feel so terribly anxious everytime they don't answer your call or you see "N...